{"id":5314,"date":"2025-06-25T16:56:01","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T16:56:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/?p=5314"},"modified":"2025-06-25T16:56:45","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T16:56:45","slug":"iyi-ki-almanyaya-iltica-etmedim-bu-hayatimin-en-buyuk-hatasi-olurdu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/2025\/06\/25\/iyi-ki-almanyaya-iltica-etmedim-bu-hayatimin-en-buyuk-hatasi-olurdu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi ki Almanya&#8217;ya \u0130ltica Etmedim: Bu Hayat\u0131m\u0131n En B\u00fcy\u00fck Hatas\u0131 Olurdu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>FRANSA\u2019YA SI\u011eINDIM: Melek Gibi \u0130nsanlar, Ger\u00e7ek Anlay\u0131\u015f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de LGBTQ+ bireylerine y\u00f6nelik artan \u015fiddet, toplumsal d\u0131\u015flanma ve devlet destekli homofobik bask\u0131lar bir bireyi daha \u00fclkesinden ka\u00e7mak zorunda b\u0131rakt\u0131. Sokakta defalarca sald\u0131r\u0131ya u\u011frayan, fiziksel darp ya\u015fayan ve \u00f6l\u00fcm korkusuyla ya\u015fayan gen\u00e7 bir LGBTQ+ birey, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de ya\u015fama \u015fans\u0131m yoktu. Her an bir homofobik sald\u0131r\u0131ya u\u011frayabilir ve \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclebilirdim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc toplumda ve devlette LGBTQ+\u2019ya kar\u015f\u0131 bir nefret var ve bu nefret gittik\u00e7e yayg\u0131nla\u015f\u0131yor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-5315\" src=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1-1229x1536.jpg 1229w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1-600x750.jpg 600w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/489824953_18393672124105106_4673789149706204120_n-1.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ertan D.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte tam bu y\u00fczden, umutlar\u0131m\u0131 toplayarak Fransa\u2019ya ka\u00e7arak s\u0131\u011f\u0131nma karar\u0131 ald\u0131m<br \/>\nFrans\u0131z G\u00f6\u00e7 ve \u0130ltica \u0130daresi yetkililerinin kendisine olan yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle aktar\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYa\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131, T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;deki LGBTQ+ bireylerin genel durumunu anlatt\u0131m. \u0130nan\u0131lmaz derecede anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131yd\u0131lar. Melek gibilerdi. &#8216;Seni \u00e7ok iyi anl\u0131yoruz ve burada kalman gerekti\u011fini insani olarak kabul ediyoruz&#8217; dediler.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme ile birlikte toplamda sadece 4 ay gibi k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcrede tam <strong>10 y\u0131ll\u0131k oturum izni<\/strong> verildi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKorkular\u0131m, psikolojik y\u0131k\u0131m\u0131m, endi\u015felerim bitti. Fransa bana g\u00fcven, huzur ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck verdi. Art\u0131k mutluyum. Te\u015fekk\u00fcrler Fransa!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-5304\" src=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n-1229x1536.jpg 1229w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n-600x750.jpg 600w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503660278_18402512110105106_502028961346077815_n.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ertan D.<\/p>\n<p><strong>ALMANYA\u2019DA \u0130LT\u0130CA ETMED\u0130\u011e\u0130ME \u015e\u00dcKRED\u0130YORUM<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kendisi bug\u00fcn geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda en do\u011fru karar\u0131 verdi\u011fine emin:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlmanya\u2019ya gitmedi\u011fim i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckrediyorum. Sosyal medyada Almanya\u2019ya iltica etmi\u015f T\u00fcrk LGBTQ+ bireylerin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 trajedileri, psikolojik \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015flerini, reddedilme ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Almanya\u2019da ya\u015fananlar ger\u00e7ekten beni deh\u015fete d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcyor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re, \u00f6zellikle <strong>Almanya\u2019n\u0131n BAMF (G\u00f6\u00e7 ve M\u00fclteci Dairesi)<\/strong> T\u00fcrk LGBTQ+ ilticac\u0131lar\u0131na sistematik olarak <strong>ret kararlar\u0131<\/strong> veriyor.Bu konuda \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc insanl\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir \u00fcne sahip olmu\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlmanya&#8217;daki iltica dairesi, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f insanl\u0131k dramlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geliyor. T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;deki LGBTQ+ bireylerin durumu ortadayken, &#8216;genel durum k\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011fil&#8217; gibi ger\u00e7ek d\u0131\u015f\u0131 gerek\u00e7elerle ret verip insanlar\u0131 deport etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlar. Bu insanl\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir uygulama.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Almanya\u2019daki mahkemeler, sivil toplum \u00f6rg\u00fctleri ve Avrupa \u0130nsan Haklar\u0131 Mahkemesi bu konuda harekete ge\u00e7meli.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu vicdans\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 durdurmalar\u0131 gerek. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu kararlar sadece bireyleri de\u011fil, hayatlar\u0131 karart\u0131yor. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de zaten her g\u00fcn yeni bir nefret vakas\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131rken \u2018genel durum \u00f6nemli de\u011fil denmesi, bana g\u00f6re tamamen k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli bir yakla\u015f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>FRANSA LGBTQ+ \u0130LT\u0130CACILARINA GER\u00c7EKTEN DE\u011eER VER\u0130YOR<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ta\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m deneyim, Fransa\u2019n\u0131n yaln\u0131zca s\u00f6zde de\u011fil <strong>\u00f6zde LGBTQ+ dostu<\/strong> bir \u00fclke oldu\u011funu bir kez daha g\u00f6steriyor:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBurada bir g\u00fcn bile stres ya\u015famad\u0131m. Fransa bana sadece bir s\u0131\u011f\u0131nak de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda ya\u015fama hakk\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131. Demokratik, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck\u00e7\u00fc ve insan onuruna sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir \u00fclke oldu\u011funu birebir ya\u015fad\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sonu\u00e7 olarak, Fransa&#8217;daki LGBTQ+ ilticac\u0131lar\u0131n g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc insani muamele, Avrupa&#8217;n\u0131n di\u011fer baz\u0131 \u00fclkeleriyle de kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131 olarak \u00f6vg\u00fcyle an\u0131l\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHollanda, Bel\u00e7ika, \u0130spanya, Malta, Portekiz gibi \u00fclkelerde de T\u00fcrk LGBTQ+ bireylere insani kararlar verildi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Ama Almanya\u2019da bu yok. BAMF\u2019\u0131n ret gerek\u00e7eleri tamamen ger\u00e7ek d\u0131\u015f\u0131. Umar\u0131m bu duruma bir dur denir.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0\u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck Bir \u00dclkenin Ger\u00e7ek Kimli\u011fidir<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu tan\u0131kl\u0131k, yaln\u0131zca bir bireyin ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda Avrupa\u2019daki iltica sistemlerinin LGBTQ+ bireylere kar\u015f\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131m fark\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne seriyor.<br \/>\nBir tarafta anlay\u0131\u015f, g\u00fcven ve huzur&#8230;<br \/>\nDi\u011fer tarafta ret, ink\u00e2r ve travma.<\/p>\n<p>Fransa\u2019n\u0131n bu konuda ne kadar insani bir yol izledi\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ortada. Umar\u0131z bu ses, di\u011fer \u00fclkelerin de politikalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmesine ilham olur.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-5305\" src=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n-1229x1536.jpg 1229w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n-600x750.jpg 600w, https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503059057_18400594018105106_4757301660877042399_n.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ertan D.<\/p>\n<div style=\"width: 640px;\" class=\"wp-video\"><video class=\"wp-video-shortcode\" id=\"video-5314-1\" width=\"640\" height=\"1138\" preload=\"metadata\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"video\/mp4\" src=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Facebook-1.mp4?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Facebook-1.mp4\">https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Facebook-1.mp4<\/a><\/video><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>FRANSA\u2019YA SI\u011eINDIM: Melek Gibi \u0130nsanlar, Ger\u00e7ek Anlay\u0131\u015f T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de LGBTQ+ bireylerine y\u00f6nelik artan \u015fiddet, toplumsal d\u0131\u015flanma ve devlet destekli homofobik bask\u0131lar bir bireyi daha \u00fclkesinden ka\u00e7mak zorunda b\u0131rakt\u0131. Sokakta defalarca sald\u0131r\u0131ya u\u011frayan, fiziksel darp ya\u015fayan ve \u00f6l\u00fcm korkusuyla ya\u015fayan gen\u00e7 bir LGBTQ+ birey, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131: \u201cT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de ya\u015fama \u015fans\u0131m yoktu. Her an bir homofobik sald\u0131r\u0131ya u\u011frayabilir ve [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5317,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAowy76-DA:productID":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[71],"tags":[142,148,281,280,83],"class_list":["post-5314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-queer-voice","tag-almanya","tag-bamf","tag-fransa","tag-iltica","tag-lgbtq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5314","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5314"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5314\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5319,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5314\/revisions\/5319"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5317"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5314"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5314"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazinstar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5314"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}